Habit 1

Last week, we started talking about Habit 1, Be Proactive. It is a habit of choice and influence. A habit of controlling ourselves. One of the videos shown to us talked about 'carrying your own weather.' That phrase has made me think about my own life and the moments that I felt sad because of what people said or do to me. I remember moments when a friend tells me to just ignore that comment, and many times I wish I could ignore and erase it from my memory and feel happy again or maybe not hurt. But, it is really hard. It is a process, one doesn't magically change from one day to the other or maybe someone can, who knows. I admire people who can do that and change their perspective about the situation. Boy, I have so much to learn.